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 Power
 

For Wives and Mothers

(including myself) 

What if you had a very powerful bomb in your possession and you were the only one who could possibly have control of it. There was no way you could get rid of it and you had it with you wherever you went, whether you walked, flew on a plane or drove....every second you live and where ever you go. It could just demolish your family and/or anyone with whom you were physically and geographically connected. How careful would you be with it?

Well....we do have one and it is even more powerful than a physical bomb or T-N-T!

It is spelled I-N-F-L-U-E-N-C-E, and it can destroy families...children, husbands and others even in our extended families, our acquaintances and dear friends, or...it can help them.

Over the years I have noticed and been amazed how great my influence has been on our children and also on my husband. I can understand the children but my husband? That strong silent type man who is in charge and knows what to do in almost any circumstance? The one who made us all feel safe just because he was in the house?  Influence on him???

At times it caused me to really do some deep thinking because it is a huge responsibility to carry that much influence on someone else.  It is really scary to think how much we hold as wives and mothers. We should handle it with extreme care, because the eternal destiny of souls, the ones we love so dearly...may be at stake.

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 The Little Ones
 

Our little granddaughters...I could write a book about them. Ages now 25 and 23...

THE LITTLE ONES WE COME IN CONTACT WITH.

Have you ever been in a grocery or department store and passed a cart with a little child in it, shopping with its mother? Do you speak to or smile at the little one? Every time you see one?

I must admit that I didn't, usually...but my husband always did.  I love babies and little children dearly, but I usually just kept shopping and trying to remember what I forgot to put on the list. lol  Sometimes I thought that he shouldn't do that so much.....it might strike fear into the heart of the mother, with all that is happening to little ones in our country today.

But...can you imagine Jesus ignoring a child?  I can't!  

Children have bad days too.  That lady pushing the cart may be a baby sitter instead of the mother.  They may be with a mother who ignores them a lot.  They may be  abused children where the only attention they get is when they do something bad.  They may be feeling bad.  Any number of things can cause grownups or children to be having a bad day.

 It may be where you can only give them a smile and a wave of your hand and then...there may be times when the circumstance is where you can talk to them.  We can bring joy for a moment and we don't know just how small an act sometimes might change a person's life,even a little person... 

 I have decided, after watching my husband all these times, that I am going to do like him and show every little one I come close to, no matter where it is, some little bit of attention.  How about you? Every little child needs to feel important. If more of us did this...what a difference it might make in the life of a little child.

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 The Finite Mind
 

What some finite minds

Cannot understand every aspect of...

They fight against or ignore

To their own detriment!

 

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 Woman: How great is the power of thy influence!
 

Wendell & Cara Lynn

WOMAN: HOW GREAT THE POWER OF THY INFLUENCE!

What is the greatest influence in a child’s life? Is it his school friends, the books he reads, movies he sees. As great as these influences are, they do not even compare with the influence of his mother.

The mother’s influence is even greater upon children than the father’s influence. Why this is, I do not know. It may be because of the time she has to spend with them compared to the time the father has to spend. This we know that God intended (Titus 2:3-5).

Her influence is so great upon her children; it even decides to some extent the father’s influence upon them, and how much respect and honor they have for him. What a tremendous responsibility mothers have!

Counselors say that there is a distinct connection, how children grow up feeling about their earthly father and how they feel about their Heavenly Father.  I know for sure this is true in my life growing up...and in the lives of our two children. (shown above) 

There was a Christian counselor discussing a woman’s problems with her and he asked about her relationship with her father as she was growing up. She replied that he was a good father to them but that he was always gone away on business and spent very little time with them. She went on describing him and then the counselor asked her how she felt about God. She told him that she believed there was a God but that He seemed so distant….

Even the most dedicated Christian father has enough small faults that if the mother isn’t careful, she can make him look like a ‘Rat’ in the eyes of his children. Children need so desperately to have a daddy they can respect and look up to, in order to grow up respecting and honoring God. Even if the daddy is not a Christian while his children are small, the mother has the power to cause her husband’s good qualities or his bad ones to influence their children. He may later in life obey the gospel, but the damage will have already been done and no amount of regret can erase it. What a tragedy!

By this I do not mean that she teaches them that everything Daddy does is right, but she does need to teach them to have a great respect and reverence for him. Minimize his faults (for we all have them) and build up his many good points. Teach your little ones to honor their daddy and then...when and as they grow up, they will know how to reverence and honor their Heavenly Father.

©Edna L. Ingram, Christian Woman Magazine, February 1979

NOTE:  When Cara Lynn was in her late teens, she said: "Daddies are the only "idols" that God allows."  Of course we know and she knew...that He doesn't allow idols at all, (anything that comes before God in your life)  but I know how she meant it.  I would also place husbands in that catagory. 

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 Sanctity of Life
 

The liberal view of the enhanced interrogation just absolutely baffles me. It was explained that it did not meet the definition of torture, but they still cling to the idea that it is torture.

It was also explained that there was a doctor in the room to make sure the terrioists (that's the ones who want to destroy us, folks!) are not in any iminent danger. There's a doctor in the room! There's also a doctor in the room when a little baby is sucked from its mother's womb in several pieces...and they don't give a rip (pardon the pun) about that, yet they worry that a very bad person is going to be made uncomfortable! How can this be?

You just can't destroy the sanctity of life in our country and it be the same ever again. There are many other things that can come to pass in a country that is going down!  How long will God have patience with a country that will destroy its young?  According to the prophets in the Old Testament, He does come to the end of his patience. 

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