(Boy I am really mouthy today!)
When our babies are small, we want to do everything for them, give them everything their little hearts could wish for, and that is only right, because their wants are very basic. All they want and all they need when they are babies are affection, love, food, sleep and to be kept dry. That's the sum of it.
But as they grow past toddler stage, they need to do some things on their own and they also need to learn the joy that comes from doing for others.
Doesn't it aggravate you when you see one in a store and the mother tries to talk him/her into being good? They buy them things to keep them quiet and it still doesn't work. They end up threatening them and then end up letting the child have its way.
Well, let me tell you, I didn't live _ _ years in a paper bag. These same little kids will grow up...and the ones who always got their way and everything they wanted...are the ones who will make you wait at a parking lot and let the cars stack up behind them while they wait on a parking place.
We were getting into our car one day and a car waiting on us to back out, had blocked 3 more cars, instead of going farther down and walking a few more steps. It is selfish and discourteous both and if there hadn't been those other people waiting, it would have been fun just to sit there and listen to the radio or read something for a while...
They will leave their shopping cart where they unloaded it even when the cart holder is right next to their car.
They are the ones who will pass you on the highway and cut across in front of you, just to be the front driver.
They are the ones who grow up to do worse things than those even...just to get what you have and/or to get what they want.
From the sound of the news the past couple of years, there are many of those 'former toddlers' out there.
These precious little ones need to be trained. They don't automatically grow up knowing what is the right thing to do. Parents have to teach them, and it is not easy...it is hard work, and there are many, many who have failed to do so. We can see the evidence of it, and it is not pretty!